Yute, your questions and the statements that you make are indicative of an adolescence. So I take it that you are one.
Now, not everybody will appreciate your inquisitive nature, nor value your point. In fact, alot of people will try to be sarcastic, and even disrespectful, some will try to put you down.
To become a man, you will have to deal with many occasions of such, not to worry, you can prevail, for once you believe you are of self worth, then nothing can harm you.
You ventured to ask about women earlier. I chose not to post on that area because, some of our fellow posters have take it on to themselves to be idiotic.
Women are easier to get along with if you view them as friendly care bears. Do you know that cartoon? Women tend to like fashion and feeling pretty.
So if you compliment a woman on how she looks, and what she wears, then you will be 2 steps ahead. However, you must remember that you are man, and it is necessary for you to be strong and stand for your own ways.
I hope that can help you.
bless...
_________________________ Truly great madness cannot be achieved without significant intelligence