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White women's opinion of black women & a brother's response Please take a moment and read this. Pretty Deep! Thumbs up to this black man.. Enjoy. It seems that an article was written to Sister 2 Sister magazine by a Caucasian woman who requested a response from black men. I'm so glad she got what she asked for (and more) !!! Dear Jamie: I'm sorry but I would like to challenge some of your Black male readers. I am a White female who is engaged to a Black male-good-looking, educated and loving. I just don't understand a lot of Black female's attitudes about our relationship. My man decided he wanted me because the pickings amongst Black women were slim to none. As he said they were either too fat, too loud, too mean, too argumentative, too needy, too materialistic or carrying too much excess baggage. Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I was constantly approached by Black men, willing to wine and dine me and give me the world. If Black women are so up in arms about us being with their men, why don't they look at themselves and make some changes. I am tired of the dirty looks I get and snide remarks when we're out in public. I would like to hear from some Black men about why we are so appealing and coveted by them. Bryant Gumbel just left his wife of 26 years for one of us Charles Barkley, Scottie Pippen, the model Tyson Beckford, Montell Williams, Quincy Jones, James Earl Jones, Harry Belafonte, Sydney Poitier, Kofi Anan, Cuba Gooding Jr., Don Cornelius, Berry Gordy, Billy Blanks, Larry Fishburne, Wesley Snipes... I could go on and on. But, right now, I'm a little angry and that is why I wrote this so hurriedly. Don't be mad with us White women because so many of your men want us. Get your acts together and learn from us and we may lead you to treat your men better. If I'm wrong, Black men, let me know. Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in VA RESPONSE Dear Jamie: I would like to respond to the letter written by A Disgusted White Girl. Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old black man. I graduated from one of the most prestigious universities in Atlanta, Georgia with a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Business Management. I have a good job at a major corporation and have recently purchased a house. So, I consider myself to be among the ranks of successful black men. I will not use my precious time to slander white people. I just want to set the record straight of why black men date white women. Back in the day, one of the biggest reasons why black men dated white women was because they were considered easy. The black girls in my neighborhood were raised in the church. They were very strict about when they lost their virginity and who they lost it to. Because of our impatience to wait, brothers would look for someone who would give it up easy without too much hassle. So, they turned to the white girls. Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of brothers date white women because they are docile and easy to control. A lot of black men, because of insecurities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have become intimidated by the strength of our black women. We are afraid that our woman will be more successful than us, make more money than us, drive nicer cars and own bigger houses. Because of this fear, many black men look for a more docile woman. Someone we can control. I have talked to numerous black men and they continuously comment on how easy it is to control and walk over their white women. I just want to set the record straight. I want A Disgusted White Girl to know that not all successful black men date white women.. Brothers like Ahmad Rashad, Denzel Washington, Michael Jordan, Morris Chestnut, Will Smith, Blair Underwood, Kenneth "Babyface" Edmonds, Samuel L. Jackson, and Chris Rock all married strong black women And, to flip the script, there are numerous white men, in and out of the spot light, who openly or secretly desire black women over white women. Ted Danson, Robert DeNiro, and David Bowie to name a few. I just don't want a disgusted white girl to be misinformed Stop thinking that because you are white that you are some type of goddess. Remember, when black Egyptian Queens like Hatsepshut and Nitorcris were ruling Dynasties and armies of men in Egypt, you were over in the caves of Europe eating raw meat and beating each other over the head with clubs. Read your history! It was the black woman that taught you how to cook and season your food. It was the black woman that taught you how to raise your children. It was black women who were breast feeding and raising your babies during slavery. It is the black woman that had to endure watching their fathers, husbands, and children beaten, killed, and thrown in jail. Black women were born with two strikes against them: being black and being a woman. And, through all this, Still They Rise! It is because of the black women's strength, elegance, power, love and beauty that I could> never> date anyone except my black Queen. It is not just the outer beauty that captivates and draws me to them. It is not the fact that they come in all shapes, sizes, colors and shades that I love them. Their inner beauty is what I find most appealing about black women. Their strong spirit, loving and nurturing souls, their integrity, their ability to overcome great obstacles, their willingness to stand for what they believe in, and their determination to succeed and reach their highest potential while enduring great pain and suffering is why I have fallen in love with black women. I honestly believe that your anger is geared more toward jealousy and envy more so than snotty looks. If this were not so, then why do you continuously go to tanning salons to darken your skin? If you are so proud to be white, then why don't you just be happy with your pale skin? Why do you continue to inject your lips, hips, and breasts with unnatural and dangerous substances so you can look fuller and more voluptuous? I think that your anger is really a result of you wanting to have what the black woman has. BOTTOM LINE: If I were looking for a docile woman, someone I can walk over and control, I would give you a call. But, unfortunately, I am looking for a Virtuous Woman. Someone that can be a good wife and mother to my children. Someone who can be my best friend and understands my struggles. I am looking for a soul mate. I am looking for a sister and; unfortunately, you do not and CANNOT fit the bill. No offense taken, none given. Signed, Black Royalty
Back in the day, one of the biggest reasons why black men dated white women was because they were considered easy.
back in the day like when?? black women were raised in church like he eh know them is the freaky ones
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Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of brothers date white women because they are docile and easy to control. A lot of black men, because of insecurities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have become intimidated by the strength of our black women. We are afraid that our woman will be more successful than us, make more money than us, drive nicer cars and own bigger houses. Because of this fear, many black men look for a more docile woman..
we jess eh want to put up with the **** somtimes
A dumb article and a dumb response it just depends on the taste
White women have a reputation of being easy and slutty, from back in the day and even today. How many white women send black men to prison after falsely accusing them of rape.
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Originally posted by Yardman: White women have a reputation of being easy and slutty, from back in the day and even today. How many white women send black men to prison after falsely accusing them of rape.
And most black women only want a man to get them pregnant so they can collect child support.
Originally posted by Yardman: White women have a reputation of being easy and slutty, from back in the day and even today. How many white women send black men to prison after falsely accusing them of rape.
idiot response to an idiot article that has been floating around for years.
have axe...will grind
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Education is a progressive discovery of our own ignorance.
You and Yardman are the main reasons why black people as people won't get anywhere in life.
Stay in your corner and bicker and say woe onto me, woe is being me.
The rest of us black people with ambition and without a chip on our shoulder will go about our business and strive without worrying about what the white man thinks and without seeking to put him or his woman down.
How old are you again?
Hey Yardman, white women have what reputation? How did it come about? ask yourself that. Black people have a nasty reputation themselves. How did THAT come about?
Be intelligent and ask yourself.
Too many dumbasses on this planet.
Just for the record Yardman, my wife was the hardest nash to get. The easiest was a tie between two black girls and a white girl. One from Jamaica and the other from TnT while on UWI campus. The white girl was an English woman at South Bank Uni. IN fact, I tink the yard girl win. Yes, she was buffalocious.
Anything else?
Once again, too many dumbasses on this planet generalising when they ent got a clue.
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Hey Guys Listen up no just tell the white people say them all come from black people. Black genes are the dominant genes while white genes are ressesive. Genetics tell you that ressesive genes dont produce dominant genes. Dominant genes produce recessive genes. Genetics tell us that all of us(human beings) come from one gene. Therefore the first man must have been black or at the very least mixed.
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Hey delano, I don't know what rock you live under or may be you are just in denial,but remember who feels it knows,but you will not able to relate to what black victims of racism are saying until you or some one close to you have really experience racism. Bashing people and calling people names is totally imature and reckless behavior on your behalf, this is a forum where we share views, not some communist regime where the people only have hears,but no voice. The article was posted because I find it to be of some relevance,not that my life depends on what is written in the article,it's just two people sharing thier views, if you don't agree one way are another,you are entitled to your believe and opinion,but when you start attacking people then you have crossed a line that you had know business crossing.
Originally posted by Slade: Hey Guys Listen up no just tell the white people say them all come from black people. Black genes are the dominant genes while white genes are ressesive. Genetics tell you that ressesive genes dont produce dominant genes. Dominant genes produce recessive genes. Genetics tell us that all of us(human beings) come from one gene. Therefore the first man must have been black or at the very least mixed.
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Originally posted by Slade: Hey Guys Listen up no just tell the white people say them all come from black people. Black genes are the dominant genes while white genes are ressesive. Genetics tell you that ressesive genes dont produce dominant genes. Dominant genes produce recessive genes. Genetics tell us that all of us(human beings) come from one gene. Therefore the first man must have been black or at the very least mixed.
Originally posted by Slade: Hey Guys Listen up no just tell the white people say them all come from black people. Black genes are the dominant genes while white genes are ressesive. Genetics tell you that ressesive genes dont produce dominant genes. Dominant genes produce recessive genes. Genetics tell us that all of us(human beings) come from one gene. Therefore the first man must have been black or at the very least mixed.
Originally posted by Yardman: Hey delano, stop yuh bloodcl**t crying and go eat some renkin meat as you custom to...dyam idiat.
with responses like that, you wonder why people view jamaicans the way they do?
You know bout me and what me eat? Based on what? Me share my habits with you? Let me stoop to your level for a bit. You are an ignorant uneducated pusshole who mussi come from mucko. As much as an idiot I am, me is still many notches above yu rass.
Originally posted by Noel2000: Hey delano, I don't know what rock you live under or may be you are just in denial,but remember who feels it knows,but you will not able to relate to what black victims of racism are saying until you or some one close to you have really experience racism. Bashing people and calling people names is totally imature and reckless behavior on your behalf, this is a forum where we share views, not some communist regime where the people only have hears,but no voice. The article was posted because I find it to be of some relevance,not that my life depends on what is written in the article,it's just two people sharing thier views, if you don't agree one way are another,you are entitled to your believe and opinion,but when you start attacking people then you have crossed a line that you had know business crossing.
1) I have lived and travelled to many different countries on this here planet. From South America to all over Europe, the Caribbean and North and Central America. Havent been to Africa or asia yet. The most racism I have encountered are in South America and North America. In North America it was always the Indians and the Chinese who displayed the worse racism to ME. I have also experienced it from whites and fellow black people. Jamaica's class bias is bad as well.
2) You get on your high horse talking about immaturity yet agreed with the response of the black man?? So, are you saying it is mature to respond to some negativity by one person by showing yourself to be just as much a bigot as them with your own attacks(as he did on women of a particular race)?
You need to wheel and come again once you leave dat glass house of yours!
I repeat, black people won't reach anywhere until dem get rid of dat woe on to me attitude. Both the white woman and black man who contributed to that piece are ignorant jackasses. I won't make an apology for saying that as I did with my first post on this thread. If you doh like too sad. Crossing the line is what they both did when they started to GENERALISE.
